When one spouse makes significantly more than the other, spousal support may be appropriate. Spousal support is intended to ensure one spouse does not experience a significant drop in quality of life after the divorce. Child support, in a similar context, ensures that children are cared for at a similar quality of life when spending time with either parent.
If spousal support or child support are necessary, your divorce mediator can guide the negotiation and agreement with a practical view. This will help eliminate any feelings of helplessness or hostility so that both spouses are financially comfortable with the final agreement and any children are always taken care of in both households.